Comments on: I wish http://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/ A healthy and wealthy journey around the world one city at a time Mon, 30 Jan 2012 15:56:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Terence Changhttp://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/comment-page-1/#comment-4261 Terence Chang Thu, 07 Aug 2008 17:33:25 +0000 http://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/#comment-4261 @Marketing Deviant:That's true! There is no more wish. It will just be the facts! Thank you for stopping by again! @Marketing Deviant:

That’s true! There is no more wish. It will just be the facts! Thank you for stopping by again!

]]> By: Marketing Devianthttp://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/comment-page-1/#comment-4246 Marketing Deviant Tue, 05 Aug 2008 19:58:38 +0000 http://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/#comment-4246 Like the saying goes... getting in is easy, getting out is hard. Like the saying goes… getting in is easy, getting out is hard.

]]> By: Terence Changhttp://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/comment-page-1/#comment-4235 Terence Chang Sun, 03 Aug 2008 18:47:02 +0000 http://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/#comment-4235 @Rummuser @Rita @Kelly She-PowerThank you all for the kind encouragement. I still felt angry today by looking at AllState sponsored TV event. I just could not believe that they keep advertising "<b>Are you in good hands?</b>"I will move on no matter what tough time that I am facing. It's life. I will separate anger and turn that into motivation. From the bottom of my heart, I am a positive and happy person.Life goes on!Thank you all! @Rummuser
@Rita
@Kelly She-Power

Thank you all for the kind encouragement. I still felt angry today by looking at AllState sponsored TV event. I just could not believe that they keep advertising “Are you in good hands?”

I will move on no matter what tough time that I am facing. It’s life. I will separate anger and turn that into motivation. From the bottom of my heart, I am a positive and happy person.

Life goes on!

Thank you all!

]]> By: Ritahttp://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/comment-page-1/#comment-4234 Rita Sun, 03 Aug 2008 16:04:04 +0000 http://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/#comment-4234 Terence,Depression stinks, and as you can see - it is horribly contagious to those who care about you. I am glad that you have "overcome" your despair. (I use AllState as well, and sympathize!)As someone who has lived with depression a few times, I was given some great advice: anger is a valid emotion, and one that should be expressed and dealt with. Aggression, on the other hand, tends to make problems worse. Once you can separate the two, it becomes easier to deal with the nonsense of life!As to turning 40 - I don't know about anybody else, but my 40's have been the ABSOLUTELY BEST TIMES OF MY LIFE! (I am almost 48). Go with it. I have found it to be quite a liberating decade!Best to you,Rita Terence,

Depression stinks, and as you can see – it is horribly contagious to those who care about you. I am glad that you have “overcome” your despair. (I use AllState as well, and sympathize!)

As someone who has lived with depression a few times, I was given some great advice: anger is a valid emotion, and one that should be expressed and dealt with. Aggression, on the other hand, tends to make problems worse. Once you can separate the two, it becomes easier to deal with the nonsense of life!

As to turning 40 – I don’t know about anybody else, but my 40′s have been the ABSOLUTELY BEST TIMES OF MY LIFE! (I am almost 48). Go with it. I have found it to be quite a liberating decade!

Best to you,

Rita

]]> By: Kellyhttp://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/comment-page-1/#comment-4233 Kelly Sun, 03 Aug 2008 09:48:06 +0000 http://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/#comment-4233 Terence, it is horrible to feel ripped off and let down, especially when we have done nothing wrong. I don't blame you for getting depressed, and you know, that's okay. It's just another emotion and sometimes we have to feel it to move forward.Now you're at anger that is a very good step after depression because it is empowering. Feel it. Let it energize you, drive you. Take the positive from it and then let it go. What's done is done and the now and the future are what matter. This is just a blip in the road my friend. Nothing more.Take care and take your own advice - SMILE!Kelly Terence, it is horrible to feel ripped off and let down, especially when we have done nothing wrong. I don’t blame you for getting depressed, and you know, that’s okay. It’s just another emotion and sometimes we have to feel it to move forward.

Now you’re at anger that is a very good step after depression because it is empowering. Feel it. Let it energize you, drive you. Take the positive from it and then let it go. What’s done is done and the now and the future are what matter. This is just a blip in the road my friend. Nothing more.

Take care and take your own advice – SMILE!

Kelly

]]> By: rummuserhttp://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/comment-page-1/#comment-4230 rummuser Sat, 02 Aug 2008 05:05:37 +0000 http://www.terencechang.com/2008/07/31/i-wish/#comment-4230 Ah, now I understand. This too shall pass. You have arrived at the right conclusions. Don't worry, it will all work out eventually and you will laugh at the whole thing in a few weeks' time. All the best. Ah, now I understand. This too shall pass. You have arrived at the right conclusions. Don’t worry, it will all work out eventually and you will laugh at the whole thing in a few weeks’ time. All the best.

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